When she was 14, Shyanne Fulks was in foster care in a psychological well being care facility and going through an unsure future.
However on Friday Might 27, Shyanne will graduate one yr early from Lexington’s Tates Creek Excessive Faculty, an accomplishment she credit largely to Aimee Fulks, a single girl who three years in the past adopted Shyanne.
Fulks mentioned not lengthy after she was authorized as a foster mom, foster care company officers requested if she could be a foster mom to Shyanne.
“When she walked into the room, I assumed ,’This lady appears identical to me. She could possibly be my child,’” Aimee Fulks mentioned.
Shyanne, now 17, thought the identical factor.
Fulks mentioned Shyanne’s father died when she was 4 and he or she lived together with her mom till social companies officers positioned her together with her aunt. At 8, she was despatched to stay with a cousin. At 13, she was moved to a psychological well being facility, then to a foster residence and again to the hospital.
Shyanne mentioned she is telling her story as a result of she desires to lift consciousness about psychological well being points and the deserves of adopting teenagers from foster care.
Shyanne was guarded when she first got here to stay with Fulks. Then, sooner or later when Fulks was driving Shyanne to highschool, the music, “Don’t Cease Believing” by the band Journey got here on the radio. Aimee Fulks began singing loudly and Shyanne joined in. They burst into laughter.
“That’s how we broke the ice. We spent the summer time collectively and I made a decision to undertake her,” Aimee Fulks, 44, mentioned. “She’s only a actually candy lady.”
At Aimee Fulks’ home they bonded over pets, together with two canines, a fish, a gecko, and a chinchilla.
“She tries her finest,” mentioned Shyanne. “I used to be meant to be with Aimee as a result of she is such a robust individual.”
Shyanne, Fulks mentioned, has overcome “anxiousness and her previous.”
A “C” scholar when she first moved in with Fulks, Shyanne now makes A’s and B’s and has a 3.57 grade level common at Tates Creek Excessive Faculty.
At first, Aimee inspired Shyanne to make good grades by giving her an allowance. After some time, she didn’t have to do this.
“The primary time she made straight A’s, it simply actually struck a chord together with her,” she mentioned.
Shyanne took a web based accelerated summer time program exterior of Tates Creek Excessive Faculty that allowed her to graduate early.
She goes to Bluegrass Neighborhood and Technical School in Lexington this fall. She works at a pet retailer and when she is eighteen, plans to get coaching in pet grooming. She desires to change into a veterinary technician.
She’s been taking stitching lessons, and should start working with alterations. She loves to put in writing in her journal, and to put in writing brief tales and poems.
Shyanne’s exploring profession decisions earlier than she makes the bigger choice on pursuing her bachelor’s diploma.
“Mainly something she desires to do, I help her in it,” mentioned Aimee Fulks.
The adoption was closing in October 2021.
“To get a baby at 14 was actually difficult,” she mentioned. “For her to have the ability to obtain love was onerous for her,” Fulks mentioned.
They each proceed to go to counseling.
“We’ve each realized about ourselves,” Fulks mentioned. “We’ve realized endurance. Communication abilities on either side have improved.”
Mentioned Shyanne of her adoptive mom:
“She actually pushed me to be the very best model of myself.”